Here’s Why You Should Stop Waking Up To Go To The Bathroom (And How To Do It)

How does the pelvic floor influence your pre-bedtime and sleeping habits? Not by much, but I am confident I will find the connection.

As a pelvic floor physical therapist, I teach that waking up in the middle of the night to urinate is not a good sign.

When a patient admits to waking up once, twice, or three times a night to use the restroom, I educate them on bladder irritants, the importance of staying hydrated before bed, and how to “retrain” their bladder with habits.

All of these things are important to remember, but there’s another reason we shouldn’t wake up in the middle of the night to use the restroom: it means we’re not entering the critical REM (rapid eye movement) period!

During REM, our bodies undergo a variety of fascinating processes. It’s an important sleep stage that influences mood, memory, and learning.

 

Antidiuretic hormone (ADH) is also released during this time. ADH’s major job is to reduce the amount of water excreted through urine, so preserving your body’s fluid capacity.

When fluid needs to be preserved rather than lost, we produce more ADH and urinate less frequently. When we are properly hydrated, ADH secretion decreases, and we urinate at regular intervals (every two to three hours, with a strong flow lasting eight to twelve seconds).

ADH not only helps us stay hydrated, but it also affects how well we sleep!

A well-hydrated adult should need to use the restroom every two to three hours. So, how do we expect to sleep for more than eight hours without having to urinate?

ADH REM sleep increases the production of ADH, which reduces the amount of urine generated. This results in less frequent urine, and presto!

We can now sleep without urinating!

The conclusion is that if you have difficulty entering your REM sleep cycle, you will not secrete as much ADH, your urine output will continue at the “daytime” rate, and you will eventually need to urinate at night.

The remedy is to create good sleeping habits, which will allow you to enter your REM period, make more ADH, and avoid needing to get up in the middle of the night to use the restroom. If you drink 32 ounces of water an hour before bed, you may find yourself needing to get up to urinate.

Alcohol also suppresses the release of ADH, which causes the body to produce more urine and dehydrate itself.

As a result, drinking a glass of wine before bedtime may cause you to urinate during the night.

Suggestions for Good Sleep Habits:
1. Establish a regular sleep routine by going to bed at approximately the same time every night.

2. Establish nightly routines: meditate, take a bath, or listen to music. These ought to be soothing pursuits that help you signal to your body when it’s time to sleep.

3. Make sure to exercise on a regular basis for at least two hours before going to bed.

4. Nicotine and coffee are stimulants that will disrupt your sleep, so cut back on both. Try to cut back on caffeine after twelve. Initially, withdrawal from nicotine will make it difficult to fall asleep. But once the withdrawal stage passes, research suggests that you should be able to sleep better.

5. Eat nothing just before going to bed. Aim for a minimum of two hours of dinner before going to bed. But research has shown that having a small snack before bed helps people sleep better.

6. Steer clear of alcohol: while it acts as a sedative and helps you fall asleep at first, it will disrupt your sleep, causing you to wake up more frequently and maybe experiencing more nightmares.

7. To make it simpler for you to fall asleep, take brief naps during the day to accumulate “sleep debt.”

8. Only use your bedroom for sleeping and having ***! Aim to avoid using devices, eating, or watching TV in bed. Instead of connecting your bedroom with activities that could cause tension, you want to identify it with sleeping.

9. Put an end to screen time. Using screens—TV, phones, tablets, and laptops—two hours before bed can throw off our biological clock. Our brains are “confused” by the light emission, leading us to believe it is daytime.

10. Ensure that your bedroom is cozy, peaceful, and cool!